windows xp pro 64bit apache server config needed

I am running windows xp pro 64bit. I have installed indigoampp which has the latest apache/php and mysql in it as well as perl problem 1:i watch the firewall bytes sent stats... the crawlers are getting over 500,000 bytes sent... new users and ips are getting less than 555 bytes 2:i asked some friends on facebook if they could log on and all said they could not 3:website loading time even on my on local host are really slow.. over 15 seconds on a 5meg upstream what i need. someone who knows all these programs very well and can configure them for my server.. hopefully get my users to be able to use it and at as fast speed as possible for loading times... If you can do this i am willing to pay out when the job is complete. ## Deliverables once the modifications to the server have been done i will ask my friends from all over the world to test it.. and if it works (fast as anything perferably) you will be paid apon confirmation that it does indeed work for every users